Helped a friend move recently. The most striking moment? When everything was out, and we just stood in the empty room. It felt… peaceful.
π We rarely experience emptiness:
- β° Schedules filled to the minute
- π Minds packed with thoughts
- π± Phones loaded with apps
- πΊ Lives crammed with content
βοΈ The fullness fallacy:
- π¦ More stuff = more happiness
- π₯ More friends = more connection
- π More activity = more meaning
- π More input = more wisdom
π© Signs youβre avoiding empty spaces:
- π You fill silence with noise
- π² You solve boredom with scrolling
- π You cover anxiety with busyness
- π You mask loneliness with distraction
π What empty rooms teach us:
- π± Space creates possibility
- π‘ Silence breeds insight
- π Emptiness invites renewal
- π€ Absence makes room for presence
Because sometimes, what we need most is what isnβt there.
β¨ Curious if youβre filling spaces that need to stay empty? Take my free self-assessment βAre You Making Life Harder Than It Needs to Be?β to find where you might need more room to breathe.
π‘ Ready to create space? Join my 8-week course βEnjoy Life The Easy Wayβ and learn how to embrace the power of empty.
-Dr. Angelo Valenti